Alice: Why do people laugh?
Humor is the affirmation of ourselves, an awareness of our place in the
world. It is the ability to see reality, at least the absurd aspects of it. Or
maybe it is the nervous acceptance that we are unable to see or accept
reality for what it is, our place in the vast universe? As Woody Allen said: “God
is dead, Marx is dead, and I myself do not feel very well…” Laughter is also self-mockery.
Bénédicte: Laughter is not just a reaction to absurdity, it is
also about communication. Through laughter, people share ideas and
feelings with others, especially when they have the same sense of humor. Humorists
provoke thought and discussion by making us laugh.
Marilou: Humor is also a means to be part of a group, of friends
or at work. Someone with humor is usually well-liked; everybody likes to be
with someone who makes them laugh. Humor is a means to feel happy, and we
shouldn’t put limits on that. How can you forbid someone from being happy?!
Wesley: I agree that laughter is a factor of social integration,
but it can also be used to exclude. Think of business people; they have
to laugh at the boss’s lame jokes because he is the boss! Humor helps maintain
the hierarchy in society. It is also an efficient management tool, useful in breaking
the ice, in team building, in the all-important after-work parties, etc.
Alice: Humor can be nasty, used to mock someone's physical appearance,
family situation, religion, or ethnic origin. There is a violent side to humor
too…
Bénédicte: Yes, but there are legitimate targets for humor: the
rich, the corrupt, the intolerant, the cruel, etc. To laugh is indeed to react,
to react to injustice. You can make fun of other people if those other
people do bad things.
Alice: Yes, but the danger is that humor becomes a weapon
which destroys someone’s reputation… Think of DSK.
Bénédicte: I think DSK is a totally legitimate target for
satire: a public figure who did something wrong!
Marilou: I personally think you can laugh at everyone and at everything.
Nothing should be taboo when it comes to having a laugh. It’s almost a matter
of survival, especially in the work place! I mean, if you couldn’t take the
piss out of your colleagues or your boss (behind his back), you’d go nuts!
According to a survey of 600 men, 73% said they worked better because humor was
tolerated in the work place. Did you know that, according to researchers at
Loma Linda University in California, laughter reduces stress by 38%? Our way of
life today is very stressful, be it at school, at work, or at home, so laughter
is a means to relax; it’s even, indeed, a means to stay relatively healthy in
the brain and the body! People who laugh 10 to 25 times a day have fewer health
problems than others according to a 2009 study published in the International
Journal of Medical Sciences. When you laugh, your heart rate and blood pressure
go down and you become calmer. This is why you feel a sense of relief after having
a good laugh. Laughing at everything, at everyone, at someone, or at nothing in
particular makes you live better and longer!
Wesley: There are different types of humor. The two main
categories I would say are humor in private life and the one in public life. People
have a more personal sense of humor in private life, as they know their
entourage well, they may also laugh at the same things as the people they know
well. In public life, people will be more universal so as to be understood by
as many people as possible; it’s a means to be included more easily in the
group.
Alice: Some people think it is rather dangerous to confuse
public and private life… I feel it is different in countries like the UK or the
USA, where there are more pubs, parties and so forth?
Wesley: I like political cartoons, don’t you? I think they’re
clever, they put over a message quickly, usually because they make good use of satire;
Le Canard enchainé for one uses cartoons to sometimes devastating affect!
Bénédicte: Yes, but it is sometimes difficult to share the joke,
either because you disagree with the political message or because you just “don’t
get it”… I sometimes feel a little censorship would not be such a bad thing!
Wesley: Understanding the
joke rather depends on where you come from, what you know, how open-minded you
are… If you try to stop people from mocking each other, it is like limiting their
freedom of expression; after all, everyone has the right to say what he or she
thinks on whatever issue! Sometimes, laughter is the only means of expression
left, when action or ordinary words seem inefficient in changing a situation.
Humor is a powerful political tool, which authorities sometimes try to censor…
Alice: You’re right; humor can hurt, especially as humor is
by definition funny, therefore not supposed to be taken seriously, therefore
not really dangerous! “It was only a joke!” is what cartoonists or humorists sometimes
say to avoid prosecution.
Bénédicte: I think racist, anti-Semitic, or sexist jokes and
cartoons are not funny. Suffering, humiliation, death, loneliness, etc.,
is no laughing matter either! Black humor just shows lack of respect for
victims. Black humor is prevalent in societies that are losing the essential notion
of respect for the individual…
Lucile: Yes, but everyone knows when something is meant
to be funny, even if they do not find it amusing. There are obviously different
degrees and types of humor, and everyone has their own sense of humor. Humor
can provoke, create tension, express opposition and even loathing, but it can
do the opposite too: for example, people who use jokes and laughter to defuse
tension tend to have better marriages, according to psychologist John Gottman. Laughter
is a good way of keeping the joie-de-vivre we had as children!
Bénédicte: Yes, laughter can be life-affirming! Illness is
easier to stand if a patient finds a reason to laugh. It often takes the drama
out of a situation too.
Alice: Sure, but it can be destructive too! The use of
humor can sometimes be inappropriate and offensive: mocking people's physical appearance,
religious beliefs, or ethnic origin can make a situation worse. Take the example
of the Charlie Hebdo cartoons of Muhammad; what was the intention of the
cartoonists, to shock Muslims? If that was the case, the cartoons could be seen
as an incitement to racial or ethnic hatred, which the Law forbids!
Wesley: No, not at all! The idea was to provoke fundamentalists
who want to stop anyone from expressing an opinion that they do not approve of!
Charli Hebdo was defending freedom of speech! What someone finds funny depends
on their social background, their socio-professional category, on how tolerant
they are, on their ethnic origin, their tastes, their personal experience, and
so on. Some people think black humor is fun; it is a way to laugh at things
we take too seriously. It is in a way, paradoxically, a means of coping with
tragic events or issues that are too horrible to really understand...
Lucile: Can you laugh at anything? No, not if the intention of the person who is making the joke is to
stigmatize, to demean, to exclude… Desproges said we can laugh at everything
but we have to be careful with whom we laugh, as they might not get the joke!
